In-person therapy available at all three of our VA office locations: Fairfax, Virginia Beach, and Newport News!
Based on Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy, a research-supported approach where about 75% of couples recover from distress and 90% improve their relationship.
Weekend and multi-day intensive options available. Online and in-person intensive sessions available. Superbills available for insurance reimbursement
Marriage intensives are designed for couples who:
Instead of spreading sessions across months, intensives create focused time to begin changing the relationship pattern right away.
If this sounds familiar, a marriage intensive can help create momentum when things feel stuck.
Many couples come to intensives after:
Marriage intensives allow couples to slow down the conflict cycle and begin working through the deeper emotions underneath it in a focused and supported way.

At Communicate & Connect Counseling, marriage intensives follow our Spiral to Team Process using Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy.
Together we help you:
Many couples leave intensives with more clarity, more hope, and a clearer path forward.

Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy is one of the most research-supported approaches available for helping couples reconnect and is recommended by the American Psychological Association for improving relationships.
Research shows that about 75% of couples move from distress to recovery, and about 90% experience meaningful improvement in their relationship.
Because intensives provide extended time together, couples are often able to move through important steps of the process more quickly than in weekly sessions.
During your intensive we help you:
Life doesn’t slow down just because your relationship needs attention. That’s why we offer both in-person sessions at our Virginia Beach, Fairfax and Newport News offices and secure online therapy for couples across Virginia.
Evening and weekend appointments mean you don’t have to choose between your job and your mental health.
We partner with Mentaya to help eligible clients use out-of-network benefits to reduce the cost of therapy.
Use the tool on this page to check whether you qualify.

Intensives are either in person or online though zoom. The day is somewhat flexible, and you’ll take breaks as needed. A typical schedule might look like:
Day 1:
9 – 10: Couple Assessment
10 – 11: Individual Assessment
11 – 12: Individual Assessment
12 – 1:00: Lunch
1 – 3:00: 2 Hour Session
3:00 – 3:15: Break
3:15 – 4:00: 45 Minute Wrap Up
Day 2:
9 – 10:30: 90-Minute Session
10:30 – 10:45: Break
10:45 – 12:15: 90-Minute Session
12:15 – 1:30: Lunch
1:30 – 3:00: 90-Minute Session
3:00 – 3:15: Break
3:15 – 4:00: 45 Minute Wrap Up
Life happens, and we know your calendar can be unpredictable. We will hold the dates for your intensive for one week. By that time, we need your paperwork completed in the client portal. Included in the paperwork, we’ll need your credit card information for a non-refundable deposit for half the amount of your total intensive cost. You will not be charged any additional service fees for running the credit card. Make sure you have the correct and most current credit card you want us to run in the client portal.
If you have not completed paperwork by one week after booking the intensive, your dates will be released and available to other potential clients. Your card will be run for the non-refundable deposit (half of the total intensive cost) as soon as we have your credit card information.
If you need to reschedule your intensive, you can do so up to 2 weeks before and the non-refundable deposit will be used toward your rescheduled date. If you cancel after the 2-week window, you’ll be charged the entire amount of the intensive cost.
Marriage Intensives may be right for you:
Marriage Intensives are not appropriate when:
We offer 1-Day Premarital Intensives; 2-Day Deployment Preparation and 2-Day Post-Deployment Reconnection Intensives, as well 2 Day Family Intensives for adult children and their parents. If you are interested in a special type of intensive experience, please schedule a consultation so we can address your unique needs.
Marriage Intensives are a two-day experience (often on weekends) which can take place in person or via online. A benefit of marriage intensives is that they are often cost-effective because: 1) They skip the catching up time that is often the start of weekly counseling sessions, and 2) They often allow you to go deeper, faster, and therefore speeding up the process of therapy.
Click on the button below to book your initial 20-minute free consultation. You’ll chat with your selected therapist to see if they are a good fit for your needs. If so, they will book an intake session where they can get to know you and your concerns more in depth.

Overcome pain, anxiety, and shame so you can enjoy sex and feel comfortable in your body.

Learn the tools you need to fight less and enjoy each other more.

Resolve conflicts, strengthen relationships, and create a healthier, more supportive family environment.
As a group, we are committed to a non-judgmental experience. We all look through a lens that honors what makes us human. We are relational beings, hard-wired to connect. What makes us different is where we want to be especially open, curious and never presume that we are experts. We welcome all, including sexual orientation, age, race, disability, ethnicity/national origin, gender identity and religious/spiritual affiliation.
Schedule a consultation so we can understand what’s been happening in your relationship.
Slow the conflict pattern and begin understanding what's happening underneath it.
Start having conversations that feel safer and bring you closer again.
Marriage intensives help couples understand what’s happening underneath conflict so they can begin rebuilding closeness and trust more quickly.