Marriage Intensive Counseling in Virginia Beach

Designed for couples facing urgent relationship stress, betrayal recovery, or concerns about separation who want faster progress than weekly therapy provides.

Based on Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy, a research-supported approach where about 75% of couples recover from distress and 90% improve their relationship.

Weekend and multi-day intensive options available. Online and in-person intensive sessions available. Superbills available for insurance reimbursement

Trusted by couples across Virginia for relationship-focused therapy

When weekly therapy isn’t moving fast enough

Marriage intensives are designed for couples who:

Instead of spreading sessions across months, intensives create focused time to begin changing the relationship pattern right away.

Is your marriage feeling close to the breaking point?

If this sounds familiar, a marriage intensive can help create momentum when things feel stuck.

Why couples choose a marriage intensive

Many couples come to intensives after:

Marriage intensives allow couples to slow down the conflict cycle and begin working through the deeper emotions underneath it in a focused and supported way.

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How marriage intensives work here

At Communicate & Connect Counseling, marriage intensives follow our Spiral to Team Process using Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy.

Together we help you:

Many couples leave intensives with more clarity, more hope, and a clearer path forward.

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Why Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy is effective for intensives

Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy is one of the most research-supported approaches available for helping couples reconnect and is recommended by the American Psychological Association for improving relationships.

Research shows that about 75% of couples move from distress to recovery, and about 90% experience meaningful improvement in their relationship.

Because intensives provide extended time together, couples are often able to move through important steps of the process more quickly than in weekly sessions.

What we focus on during a marriage intensive

During your intensive we help you:

Marriage intensives are especially helpful if

In-Person and Online Marriage Intensive Counseling.

Evening and Weekend Appointments Available. Flexible session options designed around your needs

Life doesn’t slow down just because your relationship needs attention. That’s why we offer both in-person sessions at our Virginia Beach, Fairfax and Newport News offices and secure online therapy for couples across Virginia.

Evening and weekend appointments mean you don’t have to choose between your job and your mental health.

Clinic Hours

Do you qualify for Reimbursement?

We partner with Mentaya to help eligible clients use out-of-network benefits to reduce the cost of therapy.

Use the tool on this page to check whether you qualify.

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Helpful Resources to Support Your Marriage Journey

Whether you’re preparing for a marriage intensive or continuing your progress afterward, these resources offer guidance, insight, and encouragement.

Frequently Asked Questions

Intensives are either in person or online though zoom. The day is somewhat flexible, and you’ll take breaks as needed. A typical schedule might look like:

Day 1:

9 – 10: Couple Assessment

10 – 11: Individual Assessment

11 – 12: Individual Assessment

12 – 1:00: Lunch

1 – 3:00: 2 Hour Session

3:00 – 3:15: Break

3:15 – 4:00: 45 Minute Wrap Up

Day 2:

9 – 10:30: 90-Minute Session

10:30 – 10:45: Break

10:45 – 12:15: 90-Minute Session

12:15 – 1:30: Lunch

1:30 – 3:00: 90-Minute Session

3:00 – 3:15: Break

3:15 – 4:00: 45 Minute Wrap Up

Follow-up work is key to making the investment last and to ensure you don’t regress. You may be able to do the follow-up work with a therapist. This could look like weekly sessions or a series of intensives.

Life happens, and we know your calendar can be unpredictable. We will hold the dates for your intensive for one week. By that time, we need your paperwork completed in the client portal. Included in the paperwork, we’ll need your credit card information for a non-refundable deposit for half the amount of your total intensive cost. You will not be charged any additional service fees for running the credit card. Make sure you have the correct and most current credit card you want us to run in the client portal.

If you have not completed paperwork by one week after booking the intensive, your dates will be released and available to other potential clients. Your card will be run for the non-refundable deposit (half of the total intensive cost) as soon as we have your credit card information.

If you need to reschedule your intensive, you can do so up to 2 weeks before and the non-refundable deposit will be used toward your rescheduled date. If you cancel after the 2-week window, you’ll be charged the entire amount of the intensive cost.

Marriage Intensives may be right for you:

  • If you are in a crisis – but both partners want to try to make it work.
  • If you are stuck in a negative interactive pattern and just can’t seem to stop fighting.
  • If you feel distant, almost like roommates and don’t know how to be close again.
  • If you just can’t make weekly counseling work with demanding schedules and/or the childcare shuffle.
  • If you’re a current client wanting to deep dive into healing from a past betrayal.

Marriage Intensives are not appropriate when:

  • One or both partners have an active addiction.
  • If there is an ongoing affair that hasn’t ended yet.
  • If you and your partner do not have the same goal for therapy, this isn’t a good format for you. In other words, if one partner wants to work on the marriage and the other doesn’t – an intensive isn’t the place to decide if you want to work on the marriage. When a couple has the same goal, an intensive can be very rewarding.
  • If being in the same room for a long time is too triggering (potential trauma reaction) or you haven’t been able to be in the same space without being civil in a period of time – this format will not be productive.
  • If there is active intimate partner violence, this is not an option.

We offer 1-Day Premarital Intensives; 2-Day Deployment Preparation and 2-Day Post-Deployment Reconnection Intensives, as well 2 Day Family Intensives for adult children and their parents. If you are interested in a special type of intensive experience, please schedule a consultation so we can address your unique needs.

Marriage Intensives are a two-day experience (often on weekends) which can take place in person or via online. A benefit of marriage intensives is that they are often cost-effective because: 1) They skip the catching up time that is often the start of weekly counseling sessions, and 2) They often allow you to go deeper, faster, and therefore speeding up the process of therapy.

  • $1,500 per 2-Day Intensive with Student Interns
  • $2,100 per 2-Day Intensive with Therapists 
  • $2,700 per 2-Day Intensive with Specialty Certified Therapists 
  • $5,100 per 2-Day Intensive for Dr. Elizabeth Polinsky

Click on the button below to book your initial 20-minute free consultation. You’ll chat with your selected therapist to see if they are a good fit for your needs. If so, they will book an intake session where they can get to know you and your concerns more in depth.

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Ready to make meaningful progress together?

As a group, we are committed to a non-judgmental experience. We all look through a lens that honors what makes us human. We are relational beings, hard-wired to connect. What makes us different is where we want to be especially open, curious and never presume that we are experts. We welcome all, including sexual orientation, age, race, disability, ethnicity/national origin, gender identity and religious/spiritual affiliation. 

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Get the support you need.

Slow the conflict pattern and begin understanding what's happening underneath it.

Feel happy and like a team again

Start having conversations that feel safer and bring you closer again.

Your First Step Towards Healing

You don’t have to keep feeling stuck.

Marriage intensives help couples understand what’s happening underneath conflict so they can begin rebuilding closeness and trust more quickly.