Therapy in Newport News, VA

Relationship Counseling for Individuals, Couples, and Families

Communicate & Connect Counseling helps individuals, couples, and families understand the interaction patterns affecting their relationships so conversations begin feeling calmer, more connected, and easier to navigate again.

Online & in-person therapy at our Newport News office. Flexible scheduling, evening & weekend appointments. Superbills provided for insurance reimbursement.

Trusted by couples across Virginia for relationship-focused therapy

Are You Stuck Having the Same Conversation Over and Over?

You’ve read the books. You’ve tried being more patient. You’ve had long talks late into the night, hoping something would finally shift. But things still don’t feel right, and now, therapy is starting to feel like the last hope to reconnect and keep your relationship and your family close.

You want to feel loved and chosen, but instead you feel:

Through therapy grounded in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and our Spiral to Team Process, many of our clients begin to feel more emotionally safe, more at ease in their relationships, and more hopeful about their future.

Why Talking It Out Isn't Always Enough

By the time most people reach out to us, couples have already tried plenty:

And still, the same argument keeps finding its way back into the room.

That’s because the issue was never a lack of effort. It’s the cycle underneath the conversation, the one that kicks in the moment things get tense and pulls both people into the same roles every time. No amount of better wording changes a pattern that’s running on autopilot.

At Communicate & Connect Counseling, we help you see that cycle clearly, for the first time, so you can finally step out of it together. We work to understand what’s really happening underneath the tension and help patterns shift so you can feel more understood, cared for, and supported.

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Effective Marriage Counseling in Newport News: How We Work

Every therapist on our team works from the same foundation: Emotionally Focused Therapy. This evidence-based approach helps individuals, couples, and families:

Many clients start feeling a shift sooner than they expected, not because the problem was simple, but because the pattern finally became visible.

Counseling Services in Newport News, VA

Each service is designed to help you understand emotional patterns so change feels lasting instead of temporary. We offer attachment-based therapy for:

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Sex Therapy & Sexuality Counseling

Overcome pain, anxiety, and shame so you can enjoy sex and feel comfortable in your body.

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Military & Veteran Couples

Learn the tools you need to stay connected through deployment, transition, and long hours at the shipyard.

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Individual Counseling

Address anxiety and relationship concerns through individual counseling.

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Marriage Counseling

Weekly guidance and practice so you can feel secure and satisfied in your marriage.

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Family Therapy

Resolve conflicts and create a healthier, more supportive family environment.

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Marriage Intensives

Jump-start therapy in a weekend-long intensive so you can make progress quickly.

A Relationship-Focused Counseling Approach

Unlike therapy that focuses only on coping strategies or surface-level communication skills, our approach helps you understand the emotional patterns shaping your relationships. We provide:

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Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy

Understand your emotional patterns and build a stronger connection with yourself.

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Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy

Understand your emotional patterns and build a stronger connection with yourself.

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Emotionally Focused Family Therapy

Improve family dynamics and create a more secure emotional bond between members.

These research-supported approaches are based on attachment science and help create lasting change in how people connect with each other.

Family Therapy in Newport News, VA, for Military and Transition-Season Families

Newport News families often navigate:

Our counselors have experience supporting military and veteran families using attachment-based therapy approaches.

Navigating Military Life as a Couple

Online and In-Person Couples Counseling in Newport News, VA

Evening and Weekend Appointments Available. Flexible session options designed around your needs

Clinic Hours

Do you qualify for Reimbursement?

We partner with Mentaya to help eligible clients use out-of-network benefits to reduce the cost of therapy.

Use the tool below to check whether you qualify.

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Helpful Resources

Check out our podcast and articles to access free resources and educational tips for relationships, communication, and navigating military family life.

Why Logic Doesn’t Work During Relationship Conflict (And What Actually Does)
Feeling Disconnected From Your Spouse? Here’s The Real Reason Couples Stop Feeling Like a Team
You Understand Each Other—So Why Are You Still Fighting?

Listen to the Latest Episodes

Explore our podcast and articles for practical insights about relationships, communication, and military family life.

Frequently Asked Questions

Starting therapy is a big step. Here are answers to some common questions people ask before scheduling their first consultation.

Our Newport News counseling center offers a wide range of mental health services designed to support individuals, couples, and families through life’s challenges. Whether you’re looking for individual therapy, couples therapy, or family therapy, we can help. Our goal is to help you feel more connected, emotionally safe, and empowered.

Consistency is an important part of the counseling process. To help you get the most out of your work together, we schedule regular weekly sessions on the same day and time each week. This consistency supports steady progress and helps you build the momentum that makes therapy truly effective.

  • $125 per hour with Student Interns
  • $175 per hour with Therapists 
  • $225 per hour with Specialty Certified Therapists 
  • $425 per hour with Dr. Elizabeth Polinsky

We do not take insurance and are not connected with Military One Source or the VA. All providers are out-of-network providers, which means that they do not bill insurance. We are happy to offer you the necessary paperwork (superbill) to file with your insurance provider for possible partial or full reimbursement. 

​Please know that not all insurance plans offer reimbursement and that some may have a deductible or an allowable amount. It is best to call the number on the back of your insurance card and speak to a representative about what your specific benefits are. In addition, insurance companies typically only reimburse if the client has a diagnosable mental health condition. Your provider can talk this through with you at any time.

Medicare: Communicate & Connect Counseling does not participate in any health insurance plans, HMO plans or panels, and cannot accept Medicare in any form. Clients of Communicate & Connect Counseling cannot attempt reimbursement of services through Medicare. Services provided by Communicate & Connect Counseling are not covered under Medicare, and no Medicare payment will be made or accepted for any reason.

Have questions about using your insurance for therapy? It is best to call the number on the back of your insurance card and speak to a representative about what your specific benefits are.

When you begin counseling, you are given a recurring weekly appointment time that is reserved just for you. Consistent weekly sessions are the most effective for counseling results, and some clients even benefit from meeting twice per week.

If you need to cancel or reschedule, we require at least 48 hours’ notice. Cancellations or changes with less notice or missed (no-show) appointments are charged the full session fee. In rare situations, your therapist may choose to waive the late cancellation fee one time per calendar year at their discretion.

If more than two sessions are missed within six months, your therapist may talk with you about whether this is the right time for counseling, and your weekly spot may be offered to another client who can attend more regularly.

The exception is Dr. Elizabeth Polinsky, who only works with clients who are willing to be videotaped for training purposes. She works with clients on a weekly basis and has a reschedule-only policy. We are happy to provide more information about this should you wish to work with her.

For individuals requiring intensive counseling, rescheduling is allowed up to two weeks before your date, and your non-refundable deposit will be applied to your new date. Cancellations after the two-week window are charged the full cost of the intensive.

Yes. Newport News is home to one of the largest shipyards in the world and sits close to several military bases, so we work with these families often, and we’ve built our practice around understanding what that life actually looks like.

Our therapists have specialized training in military and veteran couples counseling, and we understand the specific strain that comes with rotating shifts, long deployments, and the stretches of reconnecting afterward that aren’t always as easy as they sound.

Whether it’s the distance of a deployment, the unpredictability of a shipyard schedule, or the adjustment of a homecoming, we help couples and families stay connected through it, not just get through it.

Ready to start feeling closer again?

As a group, we are committed to a non-judgmental experience. We all look through a lens that honors what makes us human. We are relational beings, hard-wired to connect. What makes us different is where we want to be especially open, curious and never presume that we are experts. We welcome all, including sexual orientation, age, race, disability, ethnicity/national origin, gender identity and religious/spiritual affiliation. 

Book a Complimentary Consultation

Schedule a consultation so we can understand what’s been happening in your relationship.

Get the support you need.

Slow the conflict pattern and begin understanding what's happening underneath it.

Feel happy and like a team again

Start having conversations that feel safer and bring you closer again.

Customer Reviews

What Our Clients are Saying

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Liz is one of the top tier clinicians in this area. She is not only skilled, knowledge, and effective, but she’s genuinely caring, intuitive, and brings a calm, understanding presence to her work that makes the whole process easier. Her use of and ability to teach Emotionally Focused Therapy is masterful and she’s very easy to learn from. I highly recommend her as a supervisor, EFT trainer, and couples counselor!
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I enjoyed participating in Liz’s supervision group for couples counseling. Her approach allowed for a safe space for each clinician to share their concerns/questions about how to implement EFCT. Liz provided targeted feedback that answered my questions, offered ideas, and noted success in the session. I look forward to more work with Liz in the future.
I am so thankful we found Liz. She is so friendly yet professional. She is warm, open and an incredible listener. I would recommend her to any couple that needs some help through the rough spots.
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Dr. Liz Polinsky is a wonderful mentor and EFT supervisor. I have learned lot from her groups and enjoy her style of teaching and supervision. She also is very skilled at individual supervision, providing a balance of feedback/challenge with support and affirmation. I highly recommend her to anyone seeking to grow their knowledge and skill as an EFT practitioner.
We worked with Liz for two years. She’s professional and personable. Most providers are good at making you think they care; Liz obviously DOES care. Working with her has helped my wife and I communicate each other in a loving and open way that I previously wouldn’t have thought we were capable of doing. I understand myself better thanks to her knowledge, patience, and approachability. Could not recommend more highly.
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Fantastic experience in supervision with Liz. She is very skilled and kind, providing a supportive environment to grow. I particularly appreciate her organized approach to EFT and to supervision.
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I’ve had the pleasure of being part of Liz’s supervision group for EFT. Liz is kind, empathic, and very skilled in working with couples. I’ve benefitted greatly from her knowledge and skills, and anyone working with her will be in very good hands!
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Liz brings care and professionalism to her work. She is welcoming and offers a nonjudgemental atmosphere, allowing others to feel comfortable. She takes the time to understand the unique needs of those in her care.
Liz is a kind and helpful therapist who listens, challenges clients to think about how to improve their situations and provides resources and tools for clients to learn and grow. Great listener, always on time and always takes time to understand the full context without judging. Very helpful with anxiety, couples therapy or individual therapy on relationship topics.
Liz is an excellent therapist. She clearly listens, is very empathetic and understanding. She always seemed to be neutral and caring toward both of us, during couples therapy. She is very clear in explaining things. I feel that I’ve learned a lot in the almost 1 year that I was able to see her. And, I highly recommend her for Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT).
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