In-person therapy available at all three of our VA office locations: Fairfax, Virginia Beach, and Newport News!
Individual therapy is rooted in Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT), helping you process difficult emotions and move toward greater clarity and confidence.
Flexible scheduling with evening and weekend appointments — online or in person. Superbills available for insurance reimbursement
If this sounds familiar, individual counseling can help you move forward with clarity and confidence.
When a relationship feels uncertain, it’s common to assume the only solution is couples counseling.
But meaningful change often begins with understanding your own emotions first.
Individual counseling helps you:
You don’t have to figure everything out before getting support.
At Communicate & Connect Counseling, individual therapy is based on Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT).
EFIT helps you understand emotional reactions that may feel confusing, overwhelming, or hard to change on your own.
Together we explore:
Sometimes this process includes gently revisiting earlier emotional experiences that still influence how you see yourself or your relationships today, so those patterns no longer feel as strong or automatic.
As these experiences begin to make more sense, many people find they feel steadier, clearer, and more confident about what they want and need.

Individual counseling can support people experiencing:

Our individual counseling approach focuses on helping you build clarity and confidence in yourself—not just learning coping skills.
Using Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy, we help you understand your emotional responses and make decisions that reflect what matters most to you.
This allows you to:
During sessions, clients often explore:
Life doesn’t slow down just because your relationship needs attention. That’s why we offer both in-person sessions at our Virginia Beach, Fairfax and Newport News offices and secure online therapy for couples across Virginia.
Evening and weekend appointments mean you don’t have to choose between your job and your mental health.
We partner with Mentaya to help eligible clients use out-of-network benefits to reduce the cost of therapy.
Use the tool on this page to check whether you qualify.

The first few sessions will be spent getting to know one another, and making sure you and your therapist are both clear about what you are hoping to get out of the experience. You’ll talk lot about feelings to help you get clarity and work through any painful feelings keeping you stuck. Your therapist will also help you clarify what you want out of relationships and how to communicate clearly about your needs. Through this process you’ll be learning tools to use in your day-to-day life. If needed, your therapist will offer referrals to other disciplines, such as psychiatry, primary care, etc. Most of all, your therapist will hold space for you to have all of your experiences versus just trying to work through them on your own.
In individual counseling, we use Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT) and may incorporate additional modalities if needed. This approach helps you build more awareness and understanding of your emotions, so you have more access to your inner wisdom, and can use that wisdom to interact confidently in your relationships.
We meet with clients weekly and each session lasts for 50 minutes. It is hard to know how long therapy will take as many things impact how quickly progress can be made. Ultimately it is up to you how long you are in counseling. We will only continue if you are feeling that the therapy is helping you.
When you begin counseling, you are given a recurring weekly appointment time that is reserved just for you. Consistent weekly sessions are the most effective for counseling results, and some clients even benefit from meeting twice per week.
If you need to cancel or reschedule, we require at least 48 hours’ notice. Cancellations or changes with less notice, or missed (no-show) appointments, are charged the full session fee. In rare situations, your therapist may choose to waive the late cancellation fee one time per calendar year at their discretion.
If more than two sessions are missed within six months, your therapist may talk with you about whether this is the right time for counseling, and your weekly spot may be offered to another client who can attend more regularly.
The exception is Dr. Elizabeth Polinsky who only works with clients who are willing to be videotaped for training purposes. She works with clients on a weekly basis and has a reschedule only policy. We are happy to provide more information about this should you wish to work with her.
For individuals requiring intensive counseling, rescheduling is allowed up to two weeks before your date, and your non-refundable deposit will be applied to your new date. Cancellations after the two-week window are charged the full cost of the intensive.
We do not take insurance and are not connected with Military One Source or the VA. All providers are out-of-network providers, which means that they do not bill insurance. We are happy to offer you the necessary paperwork (superbill) to file with your insurance provider for possible partial or full reimbursement. Please know that not all insurance plans offer reimbursement and that some may have a deductible or an allowable amount. It is best to call the number on the back of your insurance card and speak to a representative about what your specific benefits are. In addition, insurance companies typically only reimburse if the client has a diagnosable mental health condition. Your provider can talk this through with you at any time.
Medicare: Communicate & Connect Counseling does not participate in any health insurance plans, HMO plans or panels, and cannot accept Medicare in any form. Clients of Communicate & Connect Counseling cannot attempt reimbursement of services through Medicare. Services provided by Communicate & Connect Counseling are not covered under Medicare and no Medicare payment will be made or accepted for any reason.
Have questions about using your insurance for therapy? It is best to call the number on the back of your insurance card and speak to a representative about what your specific benefits are.
Consistency is an important part of the counseling process. To help you get the most out of your work together, we schedule regular weekly sessions on the same day and time each week. This consistency supports steady progress and helps you build the momentum that makes therapy truly effective.
Click on the Book Now button to book your initial 20-minute free consultation. You’ll chat with your selected therapist to see if they are a good fit for your needs. If so, they will book an intake session where they can get to know you and your concerns more in depth.

Overcome pain, anxiety, and shame so you can enjoy sex and feel comfortable in your body.

Learn the tools you need to fight less and enjoy each other more.

Resolve conflicts, strengthen relationships, and create a healthier, more supportive family environment.
As a group, we are committed to a non-judgmental experience. We all look through a lens that honors what makes us human. We are relational beings, hard-wired to connect. What makes us different is where we want to be especially open, curious and never presume that we are experts. We welcome all, including sexual orientation, age, race, disability, ethnicity/national origin, gender identity and religious/spiritual affiliation.
Get your questions answered and make sure it's a good fit.
Understand your emotional responses and make decisions that reflect what matters most to you.
Move forward with a clearer sense of who you are and what you want
Individual counseling helps you understand what’s happening underneath relationship stress so you can move forward with clarity and confidence.